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Why Every Guy Should Watch at Least One Wong Kar-wai Film

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Alex Sterling

2026-05-17 · 5 min read

Why Every Guy Should Watch at Least One Wong Kar-wai Film

Wong Kar-wai makes films about loneliness, desire, and missed connection that are simultaneously the most stylish and most emotionally honest things in cinema. If you've never encountered his work, you're missing one of the medium's great pleasures: movies that look like dreams and feel like memories you're not sure you actually have.

In the Mood for Love from 2000 is the starting point. Set in 1960s Hong Kong, two neighbors discover their spouses are having an affair and begin a tentative, unconsummated relationship. The film is structured around what doesn't happen. Maggie Cheung's costumes change in every scene. Christopher Doyle's cinematography is the most beautiful in film history.

The name to know is not Christopher Doyle. William Chang Suk-ping has been Wong's production designer, costume designer and editor since Days of Being Wild in 1990, one person controlling what is in the frame, what the actors wear, and which frames survive. Maggie Cheung's cheongsams, more than twenty of them, are Chang's, and so is the decision to cut on a gesture rather than a line.

Chungking Express from 1994 is the accessible entry. Two loosely connected stories about heartbroken cops in Hong Kong, set against neon-drenched streets and cramped apartments. It's energetic, funny, and romantic in a way that doesn't feel manipulative.

Chungking Express was shot in about two months during a break in the editing of Ashes of Time, largely around Chungking Mansions on Nathan Road and the Central-Mid-Levels escalator, which genuinely does run past people's windows. Faye Wong's character plays California Dreamin' at a volume designed to drown out her own thoughts, which is better characterisation than most films manage with dialogue.

Wong Kar-wai's films are essential for guys specifically because they present male vulnerability without the usual Hollywood frameworks. His men are lonely, confused, and emotionally inarticulate, not because they're stereotypically macho but because connection is genuinely difficult.

The method explains the films. Wong shoots without a finished script, writing scenes the night before and running far past schedule: In the Mood for Love was in production for about fifteen months, and 2046 took roughly five years. Actors often do not know where the story is going. His films feel like memory partly because they were assembled the way memory is, backwards, in the edit.

The visual style is inseparable from the emotional content. Blurred motion, saturated colors, step-printed slow motion, and claustrophobic framing create a sensory experience that mirrors how memory and desire actually feel. The films look the way it feels to remember someone you wanted but couldn't have.

Happy Together, Fallen Angels, and 2046 extend the emotional universe. Each explores different dimensions of disconnection and longing, sharing the same visual poetry and fundamental tenderness toward characters who can't quite reach each other. Start anywhere. You'll want to watch them all.

One warning before you buy anything. The World of Wong Kar Wai restorations from 2021 are not simply cleaner versions. Wong re-graded them and changed some framing: Chungking Express is noticeably cooler and greener than the version people fell for, and Fallen Angels was reframed to a wider ratio. Watch an older transfer first if you have the choice. The newest restoration is not automatically the correct one.

https://www.criterionchannel.com/directed-by-wong-kar-wai

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